I use a 10" Bee Stinger Microhex with all the included weights (3 oz at the end). I shoot a Mathews Triax (28" axle-to-axle) and the stabilizer really helps to mitigate torque for those long range shots at 60+ yards. As far as weight, my bow with all the accessories is already a bit heavy so the stabilizer made no perceptible difference. Price wasn't too bad either.
You're right though, there's tons of choices in the market. Would be cool if a local shop with an in-house range allowed you to shoot a few to see which works best for your setup.