hi deerkiller. its commendable that you led in your comments about helping your wife out of respect. helping for the right reasons is always a good start. And if she is smaller in stature I agree muzzleloading can be tough, and many guys can’t do it well also. but you also said she knows how to work it, clean it, and load it. you also said another thing that stood out, that “my guns are heavy...”. So I have a couple very presumptuous, out of my lane requests for you. 1st, consider if this is right time to look into encouraging your wife to pick out a new gun that fits her size, carrying ability, hunting style and tastes. 2nd, ask her if she prefers muzzleloader hunting in the first place or wants to stick with rifle. And finally, ask her if she truly wants the well-intentioned help or down deep desires to do it herself. She may be reluctant to ask for her own gun since you already have them, and maybe she feels bad or self conscious that she is not as adept as you. I truly respect your statement of respect for your wife, but sometimes as men we get a bit clouded about protecting them from themselves, and maybe we take over a bit too much which could, over time, diminish their experience. Of course don’t worry one second over a message board comment, easier just to ask HER!