Been there....errrr....am there now with two ruptured discs (L4/5) and (C6/7). Dunno what caused it; coulda been a couple of helo crashes when I was a kid. Didn't hurt so much until a couple years before I retired. Navy Docs tried to pass it off as muscle related, bad prescription (for the migraines...'cept I don't wear glasses) until the MRI results came in.
I don't like the surgery thing much myself. Makes far more sense to try a non surgical approach, such as Physical Therapy, then maybe epidural injections or facet injections.
From there, maybe some less invasive surgery might be an option depending on what your doc says.
My back is responding, for now, to epidurals. The first time, I was willing to send the docs kids through college on the spot; after that the effects were not so dramatic. Much better than whacking away at my back.
My neck has not responded at all; I am due to meet with the surgeon tomorrow to discuss surgical options. Doc assures me that they will try minimally invasive stuff first; his planned surgery will have me home the same day.
If that fails, off to snack on some vicodin and Yukon Jack
Good luck with your back; I know how you feel.
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