I finally said "F**K IT", I'm not a professional athlete, I did Crossfit for almost 4 years, did a few competitions, could run up mountains, no lie, I ran down a herd of elk 3 times in wyoming! Long story short, I was strong as hell, fit, etc....but still was around 22% bodyfat. I'd eat salads and chicken, no sugar, no bread and just struggle to lose any fat weight. This went on for about 4 years, now, I'm ok with it, maybe I have an exomeric body type? Don't know.
Long story short, it's ok to not see your abs. Being shredded looks cool, but it takes alot to do it too.
Except for my buddy Doug, (not slammy), sumbitch eats a double cheese burger and milk shake every day for lunch and is maybe 6-8% body fat. Disgusting.