Thank you for the info. on it being legal, as i dont believe he has a Hold on him.
I asked the question for my personal knowlege, i certainly wasn't trying to call into question you or your struggles with what cards life has given you. I also didn't take the PM "the wrong way" but if i was gonna get my azz chewed for what YOU thought i was implying, i wanted the response to be for everyone to see that it wasn't the case.
As for having that kind of relationship with him and being able to joke about it...Its a good thing. As for not having that kind of relationship with others, i personally dont care. I'll say what i say how i say it, thats just me. It gets me some looks when i'm at work sometimes when i have to tell fat people my job wouldn't be so difficult if they weren't so fat... its true, do they argue?NO. does it make them feel bad, i hope bad enough that they go do something about it before i have to work with them again!
there's too much politically correctness in this country, we (as a generalized majority) have to walk on egg shells so as not to offend a POS minority.....not in my house,sister!
i'll use a favorite quote of mine, may-be you'll know who said it originally. "...well I'm 5th generation dont give a sh!t..."
Well enough of that...again thanks fore the info, and i do hope that the road your on leads to happiness and lots of LE tags that get filled.
JD McPhie